August was a busy month. Summer ended and school started up. There was some super stress there! We got in the last of the summer fun, celebrated a couple of birthdays, a new job for #3 and an engagement for #2. Also ... when I went to grab the Fitbit Intake/Burn graph for the month, it wasn't there! I had to make my own (which I've done before when I've forgotten to get a screen grab on the last day of the month). Not sure why Fitbit changed that up and eliminated that graph!
NUMBERS: Starting weight was 170.00. Ending weight was 171.08. High was 177.4 and the low was 169.10. Average was 172.06. Managed a dozen days at goal for intake. Intake average was 2213. Average burn 2777. Six days with 3000+ burn. Ended with an overage for the month (5763). Just two 30k days. Total steps 584,542. Average steps 19485. Logged miles 136. Cardio minutes 2281/3462 with just 20min weights.
EXERCISE: My workout routine is always a little off during the summer. As school starts up, I have always got back on schedule, but there were some extenuating circumstances this year. Hopefully next month will be better. 16 days with some elliptical workouts, but only achieved my hour two days the entire month. 11 days with treadmill time, only once did I get in double duty. 21 days with a Zumba class. Only one workout with weights. OTHER ACTIVITIES: Beyond the usual exercise and driving/groceries ... there was more school stuff than expected (and even more that was done from home). A beach trip and other family time. I think the mowing is a little low (I mowed more than that didn't I?) as is the garden/duck time (it's at home so it doesn't make it on the graph unless I add it manually). Some school shopping, eating out and bowling. A trip to the DMV, the doctor and the dentist.
*** JenB's Journal ***
0801 (Thursday) Weight 170.1. Steps 24217. Total Burn 3033. Exercise Burn 1000/1260 (40minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 3200. Hubs didn't sleep well and was up and off early. I was up around 6:00. Got in a couple of elliptical sessions early, then headed to Zumba w/MZL. Stats: 6039/6123 steps. 429/410 burn. AvHR117. HIgh141. In Zone 26 of the 64 minutes. Straight home afterward, as I was going to head out to meet Mom and my SILs at Red Robin. Got a little distracted getting #4's school registration done. Paid more attention to many things (medical release, etc). Made me just a little late getting out the door. They were already there and seated but hadn't ordered yet ... although they could have if they'd been ready. I always get exactly the same thing at Red Robin. Fish and Chips. Mom and I split it. Lots of chatting, discussing #4 and his struggles and other things. On the way home, I stopped at Savers and found some Nike shirts and shorts I thought #4 would like. Bought them and stuck them in the wash when I got home. He'd been on the Xbox when I left ... and I think he hadn't moved the hours I was gone. I hadn't watered yesterday, as there had been some rain. Not really enough, and some of the plants were drooping. I went out right when I got back from lunch. Dripping sweat out in the summer sun. Got in a couple miles on the treadmill in the evening. Hubs DID remember the microwave today. #1 came over and wanted Popeyes ... we'd already had it twice this week, but oh well. I had him let #4 know (as he'd disappeared to his room, and I figured he wouldn't want to sleep through Popeyes) and when he came upstairs, I gave him the Ipad and told him he needed to practice the driver's permit test. I had a practice one and he took it (grudgingly) and didn't pass. I went over the answers with him, and it wasn't a complete melt down. He didn't retreat downstairs, as he was awaiting Popeyes! It took #1 a little bit longer, as they accidentally handed him a huge family meal (chicken and sides) when he'd just ordered some tenders. They couldn't take the meal back, but then had to make up his actual order. So ... we had a TON of food. #3 and a couple of friends over, so they helped partake. I'd made some chocolate chip cookies. #2 and GF made some peanut butter cookies. We chatted a bit too. Hubs had grabbed a little nap, then was heading up to the model home to fix a fallen picture. I said I'd like to come out and see it too, so I went with him. I toured the house while he worked. Home again, and to bed. Hubs took an Ambien before bed and really didn't remember the very last part of the evening.
0802 (Friday)Weight 170.9. Steps 16633. Total Burn 2674. Exercise Burn 405/904 (Zumba). Calories in 2400. Slept in a little longer today. Didn't even attempt any exercise before heading to Zumba. And I forgot my hat. I hate it when I do that. Just feel a little self-conscious (as I'm always wearing it for Zumba) and it keeps my bangs out of my eyes. Stats: 6784/6234 steps. 429/384 burn. AvHR114. High140. In Zone 17 of the 67 minutes. After class I stopped by Joel P to check on the school situation for #5. That's where we've planned on him going, since his permit to Elkridge was revoked. But apparently, it wasn't, and he is registered at Elkridge. I can force the issue but it would require some work. I'll complete the parental part of registration on Monday morning and get his schedule, and then let him decide. Both schools have advantages and disadvantages... after that I went to Smiths and grabbed some groceries and a gift card. Picked up some pizza from Little Caesars and headed home. While unloading, I found I hadn't been handed the giftcard ... so back to Smiths, and happily, they had it set aside at least (it was a $100 one, yikes!). Dragging some today. Maybe all the school stress, maybe the weight workout from Wednesday. Feeling a bit crampy. I don't really get cramps, but wondered if this was something similar to what so many women feel during that time of the month. Printed out the map of the high school and mapped out #4's classes and such ... haven't dared talk to him about it yet though. Grilled some chicken and made yellow rice and biscuits. Dropped #5 off for practice. I forced #4 to come with me (and I mean literally. When I asked him, he just walked away and went and climbed into bed. I pulled the covers off and pulled him out. I could kind of see him wanting to pull away, but that would come at a cost of possibly causing me to fall or get hurt, and through all this, he's been a sweet kid, never violent, like I hear so many other kids can be). He was NOT happy, but he came. And even sat in the front seat. I wasn't sure he would. I'd put his phone on the charger, so he didn't have it. I talked at him about driver's ed stuff, pointing out signs and road lines and such. We stopped at Maceys to go to the America First branch there and got his "account locked" situation worked out. I would have liked to check out quick with an item or two, but he didn't want to and I didn't want to push the issue further. Back at home, I had him retake the practice test. I upgraded to the premium (no ads, saves your spot, has extra). He didn't fight me too badly, I hope that continues. I've sure educated myself on the rules of the road so I can help him study. Hubs had stopped at Costco on the way home from work ... you know the saying "don't shop when you are hungry?" For Hubs, it's simply "Don't shop while being Grayson" ... he bought so much random stuff. New utensils, a toilet seat with a soft close, portable car chargers (that can actually jump a car engine) ... plus a brisket for smoking up tomorrow. In the evening he was doing his computer vegging with his drink. Can't have the A/C on when he's at his desk. With the two vents on either side, it does freeze you out. It used to be my spot, I remember! But Hubs was even cold once he came to bed. I didn't think the room was that cold, but he was cold.
0803 (Saturday) Weight 169.6. Steps 12810. Total Burn 2524. Exercise Burn 0/759 (no exercise). Calories in 3700. Awake a bit before 7:00. I had started my fast around 6:30 last night ... and I was hungry. Trying to put off breakfast, none of the kid were up yet. Fed the ducks, and got a little distracted out in the garden area. Redid the fence separating the two sets of birds. Moved some soil to some spots that were lacking (poor sunflower roots were almost bare). Then I trimmed and mowed the front lawn, and put the battery to charge. Came in and started making Tinga. It's a dish #4 really likes, and is much more healthy than so many option options. I hadn't seen him yet (it was almost 11:00) and I texted him to come up and help me ... and he did! I had him shred the chicken (from yesterday) while I sauteed the onions and prepped the sauce. #4 seemed in good spirits, joking with his brothers and laughing and such. There were watching Parks and Rec. #4 and #3 ate some Tinga and I got the rest put away and cleaned up the kitchen, loaded the dishwasher. Hubs had put the brisket on in the morning, and then gone out running some errands. Installed the new water filter on the faucet in the laundry room. I pointed out that the kitchen faucet was leaking a little. I hadn't realized it, but it was also leaking under the sink ... dripping into #2's bedroom! Not as bad as the dishwasher leak a while back, but still, making a mess. So, hadn't been on Hub's adjenda but he fixed the sink. He had an extra faucet set on hand, and replaced it. All better. So hand to have such a handy man. I finished the mowing and did the watering of the ducks and garden. A storm was rolling in. Dark clouds and a few sprinkles, but really no rain. #1 and wife were over, and took the two littles bowling. #2 and GF joined them. With six on one lane, it took a while. #3 hadn't felt like going. Then it was dinner. Hubs made mashed potatoes and asparagus in addition to the brisket. I added Brazillian Cheese Rolls. Hubs had to rest his eyes a little, before heading out to a concert with a work buddy. I got the kitchen cleaned up. #1 and wife went to check out the parade home, then came back to play games with the littles. They did some Jack-Box and then went out for some hacky-sack and volleyball. #4 had played a little basketball with #2 earlier too. I wish he could have days like today every day!
0804 (Sunday) Weight 173.3. Steps 7149. Total Burn 2158. Exercise Burn 0/392 (no exercise). Calories in 2200. Had prepped a little yesterday, still had a bit of stuff to do, but the morning didn't feel rushed. Hubs gassed up the machines. I got the food ready. Lots of snacks, some fruits and veggies and sandwiches. With everyone going, we took two cars (the Durango and Sequoya) and still needed someone to sit in the back seat (ended up being #3, as he wanted to drive with the older boys and the girls). So Hubs and I had the two littles. Luckily no cop pulling the Sequoya over for the tinting today. Lots of wind at the base of the canyon, but not bad up at the lake. Not too crowded. BUT ... tons of dead fish, all over. Washed up on the shore, floating in the water. Hubs asked (to make sure it wasn't something bacterial, that humans shouldn't be in the water) but it was that the water level had dropped so drastically that it impacted the oxygen, killing many of the small fish. #5 and I picked up all the ones along the beach anyway. Got them thrown away. Lots of shade with two shade structures. Ana and her two boys came up too. Tried out the Inflate-a-bull (ehhh, impossible to stay on even if no one is shaking it). The paddleboard is a favorite. I tried standing and got up for a little bit. Lost the paddle though. #4 participated at the start, threw a football some. But after about an hour he was done and asking when we could head home. Luckily I had a portable charger to keep his phone going. The ride home seemed to go quickly, except the sleepies were hitting me so hard! Home to shower, and examine the sun damage. I hadn't really put sunscreen on, as my top is already so brown. The swimsuit left a couple areas open that had been white, and were now bright pink. #3 got quite a bit. The others that put sunscreen on were okay, still sun-touched, but not overly red. Always need that shower as soon as we get home. Hubs ran some ice out to his mom's house, for a neighborhood activity there.
0805 (Monday) Weight 172.5. Steps 22571. Total Burn 2929. Exercise Burn 618/1143 (Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 1950. As Hubs got up and left for work, the cat snuck in. Usually Hubs is able to keep him out. I love my kitty, but I don't like him on me when I'm trying to sleep. No more sleep for me, even though I still didn't get up and going that early. Was having some cramping again. Even thought about canceling Zumba, but hoped it would pass, and it did. Carma and I were subbing for Kirsten's class again. Stats: 6240/6471 steps. 472/403 burn. AvHR125. HIgh155. In Zone 49 of the 63 minutes. I headed straight home after, as it was the orientation over at the high school. #4 wasn't excited about it, but didn't fight me on it. We headed out. It was fun to see him light up as he saw a few friends. The kids were given a school t-shirt. He turned down the hot dog (as did I). Ran into his buddies, signed up for a locker, got picture taken and activity card printed out. Unfortunately, we couldn't find all the classrooms, as the upstairs was completely cordoned off, and so was the hallway with a couple of his other classes. We really could only get to two rooms. We'll need to come back closer to the start of school to map everything out. As we were leaving, I pointed out the driving range, completely empty, and would have been perfect to practice on. Of course, #4 said NO and I didn't push it. He came home and went straight to bed to sleep for a few hours. I just don't know what to do with him. I'd been without my phone this whole time, having accidentally left it home. Never sure whether or not to attempt to take away #4's phone as incentive to get him to do something, or if it wouldn't be worth the reaction. Am I just being a wimpy parent? #3 has been a little bored, not working or going to school and not sure of his future plans. He took my car in for a wash, and emptied and refilled the hot tub. I picked up #5 from his sleepover. I'd done his school registration and had his schedule printed out (at Elkridge) ... he said he'd just stay at that school. Worked in the yard, then got my two miles treadmill in. Some laundry and housecleaning. Hubs had a work dinner, where they were presenting the awards for the SL Parade of Homes. Symphony did well. Hubs wasn't home until late.
0806 (Tuesday) Weight 170.3. Steps 22180. Total Burn 2795. Exercise Burn 950/1035 (30minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 2500. Up early enough to get one elliptical session in early. Then Zumba over at the church. Stats: 6132/5792 steps. 450/414 burn. AvHR119. High146. In zone 35 of the 65 minutes. When I got home, I made breakfast for the boys. French toast with the cinnamon bread (just regular for me), bacon and hashbrowns. As I caught up on some computer stuff, #3 cleaned up the kitchen. He was a bit bummed, because he had plans to go to Seven Peaks with a friend (plus one for a work party) but those plans fell through. He took my car to get it washed, and I did some work in the kitchen, as I feel a little guilty when he does so much. I guess I shouldn't here while he's not in school or working either. He has been a huge help at keeping things clean. He went off to get a haircut, then took the two littles out for some fun. They went and saw puppies, ate at Italian Villiage, and went to NickleMania. #4 had to come take a nap when they got back home, but it's good as he really needs to build up his stamina for school. He and I had a little altercation as I asked him to write in his journal (one of the few things I ask, once a week). He said it was stupid and I asked if he was going to talk back to his teachers when they asked him to write. He said no, because that was school. He has always been really good at following rules, and generally teachers love him as he is a model student. He slipped a little this last year. Here's hoping that he'll be able to get into gear this coming school year. Yesterday he changed into the t-shirt we got at orientation, and today was wearing a different "Bingham" shirt I'd found for him. I hope he make a connection and shows some school spirit and enjoys the high school experience! The microwave repairman came (Hubs had told me, but I'd forgotten ... even as anxious as I was for the fix). All better now. I made it down to the gym for two miles treadmill. Got some computer work done ... caught up on journal, did a couple blog posts, book review. Some school stuff.
0807 (Wednesday) Weight 171.2. Steps 21449. Total Burn 2906. Exercise Burn 698/1145 (30minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill. Badminton). Calories in 2400. Hubs hasn't had any of his uber early mornings. Up and off a little before 6:00, which is perfect for when school starts. If he's up earlier, I often fall back to sleep (alarm wakes me, but I think I prefer Hubs waking me). Much harder if Hubs is still sleeping ... which happens, but not often. I was happy to see #4 up early (around 7:00). In the hot tub. I was recommending the littles try and shift their scheudules ... prepare a bit for the upcoming school season. Starting to wake early, trying not to nap during the day (#4 at least), going to bed earlier. I was feeling hungry this morning, so I went ahead and ate. I regretted it once I got to Zumba. Not sure if it was me digesting, or what, but I was dragging! Stats: 5603/5938 steps. 443/358 burn. AvHR115. High135. In Zone 31 of the 65 minutes. Small class, and we've been staying on the floor, as it's cooler there. After class I stopped by CalRanch and grabbed some more feed for the ducks (no eggs today or yesterday). Then to Reams to get some produce and bread. At home, I baked some cookies. Loaded the dishwasher. Overcast day, a little sprinkle of rain. As there was no sun, I asked #4 if he would try badminton with me and he agreed. We played for almost 30 minutes. Not a ton of steps, but got the HR up a little there at the end. #4 had a reaction, not sure what to. Had some bumps behind his ear and down his neck, and itchy, watery eyes. Took some Benedryl and zonked out (this WAS after 2:25, after "school" would have been out). I was feeling super tired too, and laid down myself, and also fell asleep for about an hour. #4 seemed in good spirits today. Playing paper football with #5, then went out throwing a ball with #2 when he got home from work. Hubs was working late, until 8:00.
0808 (Thursday) Weight 170.5. Steps 23365. Total Burn 615/1209 (Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 2700. Awake when Hubs left shortly before 6:00, but still have trouble pulling myself out of bed and being productive. Didn't make it down to the gym in the morning. Did my housecleaning prep and headed to Zumba. Very small group. Just three instructors, and maybe a dozen on the floor. This class is usually huge. Stats: 6000/5997 steps. 468/402 burn. AvHR120. High149. In Zone 32 of the 61 minutes. I brought some zucchini to give away and it was all taken. It had rained while I was in the church. Smelled lovely! I hit Sam'sClub (had to check out twice, once with my app, and four Nutella with a cashier as they weren't ringing up correctly) then Walmart. Debated picking up Popeyes, but after three times last week (and there is still some regular chicken in the fridge) ... I didn't. I did break my fast though, as I was hungry! I had picked up some candy corn at Sams. Halloween stuff was out, so early! But I LOVE candy corn, can't resist! It was raining a little off and on most of the day. Too bad, as #3 had plans for a bonfire and outdoor movie. He had still hoped the weather might improve, and he and spent a bit of time testing the projector and dvd setup. Had to find a cord to connect to a speaker to amplify the audio. Finally found one that worked. But alas, weather was NOT cooperative. #4 and #5 played some ping pong. #4 mentioned badminton to me, but that was one of the times the sun had come out ... and the game is not conducive to being played in the sunshine. Sun in the eyes! Later in the evening when the sun was going down, it was raining again, and he was off with #1 to see a movie (Scary Stories). #5 went along too. I let the ducks out for a while to dig around in the wet backyard. They have seemed to gravitate toward each other more lately. Snuggling right next to each other through the dividing fence. I decided to see if they could get along if I left them out together. The two males still seemed to go after HQ, driving her away, but not attacking her all the way. It just makes me feel bad, as she ends up alone. After letting them wander for a while, I herded them back. GG ended up being closer to the original three, so I just let that go, and fenced those four in, then put Quin in with HQ in the garden area.
0809 (Friday) Weight 172.5. Steps 17931. Total Burn 2716. Exercise Burn 400/930 ( umba). Calories in 2300. Just Zumba for exercise today. Stats: 5683/5425 steps. 431/341 burn. AvHR115. High173. In Zone 26 of the 63 minutes. MZL over at the church. I think I felt the A/C in the building today! After class, I stopped at Smiths to grab some groceries. They had some deals, I restocked a few things. Got them home and put away. Just wasn't feeling motivated for more workouts, but I did mow the front lawn. It looks lovely if I do say so myself. #3 was setting the screen/video/projector in the backyard. He just had his date, #2 and GF and the two littles. They had a fire and made smores, then played on the Switch then watched "Over the Hedge".
0810 (Saturday) Weight 173.4. Steps 15344. Total Burn 2678. Exercise Burn 350/897 (30minElliptical). Calories in 3900. Awake before 7:00. I did some kitchen cleanup and then hit the elliptical. Made a full breakfast (bacon, eggs, hashbrowns, frenchtoast). Got the back lawn mowed. I'd mentioned to Hubs that the melting ice in my drink was leaving floaties, which was unappealing. He went and bought a filter and attached it to the fridge. #2 installed the second Brillant switch down in the gym, and I messed with it forever but couldn't get Alexa to recognize it (I thought having some voice activation of the light would be nice, as sometimes I'll workout in the dark so the TV shows up better, but then stumble afterward to get to the door). But it does have an intercom and camera, and is connected to Ring, so I could see who is at the door from the gym, if I do need to go answer it or not. There had been a car show advertised at the local park. Not that we are big into cars, but it was close and free and I figured I'd get the two littles out of the house. Lots of cool cars, lots of dogs on leashes, and then got hot dogs for the boys at a food truck. Some steps on pedometers ... of course #4 wasn't wearing his. I'd pulled out the extra frosting to put on the extra graham crackers from the smores last night, then got out the extra Swig dough and make cookies, the frosting turned out to be about the perfect amount. While I was baking, I turned the show "Chef" on, as it's about a food truck, and I had food trucks on my mind after the car show. It was fun to watch again. Then, while watching movies again, I turned on "The Sixth Sense" and had it going on in the background as well. I did finally make it back to the gym for 10 more minutes elliptical. Then shower and to bed.
0811 (Sunday) Weight 173.9. Steps 8929. Total Burn 2266. Exercise Burn 0/492 (no exercise). Calories in 2450. Slept in today. As our last "summer Sunday funday" I wanted to do family bowling. It just ended up being Hubs and me and the two littles, as #1 and wife were hitting church, and #2 and #3 had a homecoming/farewell for brothers they both knew. It was fun to get Hubs along though. I was a little surprised the "Kids Bowl Free" still had coupons for Sunday, but they did ... although it just saved $4, as games were only $1. Shoe rental $2, which I saved with my bowling shoes ;) #4 won both games, although I wish he could still have fun regardless. We ordered some pizza and cheese sticks too. It was a fun morning. On the second game, all four of us started with 10 pins down in the first round. I had brought the arcade card, but the guys were done and in the car already. Hubs ran some errands, then we both got in a little nap. Hubs had a turkey breast on the smoker, but it was more to be shaved, so I made strogonaff for dinner. Some vegetarian, as we had Sol over, and I wanted leftovers for #2. #1 got all the boys involved in a game of Pirate, and there was a lot of laughing and joking going on. Then some Jackbox games too. #1 made some molton lava cake, and I put the rest of the cookie dough on for Skookie for the littles. #3 had a couple friends over in the evening.
0812 (Monday) Weight 175.5. Steps 22767. Total Burn 2963. Exercise Burn 550/1174 (20minElliptical, Zumba). Calories in 1500. Bad night. I was up much of it stressing. Bad for Hubs too. I got up fairly early and hit the computer for some catch-up work, and got one elliptical session in early. Off to Zumba w/Kirsten. She was there today, although running late, as she couldn't find her keys (car keys, I had the church keys). She had a new gal there to help teach. Cute and lots of energy. Just out of the two songs, one was one of Kirstens, that MZL does a little differently, but this one was completely different. Likely because of the new instructor, we had some other new mom's, lots of kids. Stats: 4528/4729 steps. 347/335 burn. AvHR118. High141. In Zone 27 of the 53 minutes. After class I stopped at Maceys. Grabbed some grapes and other produce, and some nice storage boxes on sale. #3 was hitting the gym right as I got home. He is starting a job on Monday though, so I should have free access in the upcoming days. No excuses. Did more computer work. Needing to get our insurance coverage to the credit union. I tried the online upload but that didn't work, so I had to contact the insurance agent to have them fax over the policy directly. I also looked up the school psychologist to just get #4 on his radar, and we're going to meet with him on Thursday about a 504 plan. I started on my weekly weigh-in blog post, but didn't get it done. I did get down to the gym for some treadmill time, but didn't get any more elliptical in. Did do some badminton though, with the two littles, joined by #2's girlfriend who stopped by to drop something off. #2 was off with the guys tonight. #3 was at a friend's missionary social farewell. Hubs worked late, not home until after 10:00.
0813 (Tuesday) Weight 173.9. Steps 25720. Total Burn 920/1269 (30minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 1700. I'd left part of the fence open yesterday, and the two ducks in that area were out and enjoying the grass in the morning. When I looked again, the males had gotten out too. So I went out and opened the fence so the other two girls could come wander too. While the boys still chased HQ away if she got too close, they didn't seem intent on chasing her down and abusing her (which is why I've been keeping them separated). But ... feathers ALL over. Poop too. The downside of letting them on the grass. I got one elliptical session in, then headed over to the church for Zumba. Stats: 6121/6047 steps. 474/385 burn. AvHR125. High144. In Zone 52 of the 64 minutes. Barbara likes to chat before class. She brought a couple golden zucchini to share, and Bonnie was happy to take them. I was expecting a plumber sometime today. Hubs has not been happy with the house water pressure. But no plumber ever showed. I did 10min on the elliptical (was planning on 20 but wasn't feeling it) then ate a little something. I then took #5 to Elkridge to do a quick map out of his classes. Not nearly as big a deal as before 7th grade, when it was all new, or if we had done the switch to Joel P. So it was a quick visit. #4 and I had gone over a Driver'sEd exam ... without the usual stress that sometimes comes with that. He was willing, and asked questions, hopefully learned some stuff. Going in Friday! I got two miles treadmill in ... finished up "Dead to Me" which I thought was good. What to watch next? Went out to water. #4's friends were wanting to hit a movie (the "Scary Stories" that #4 had already seen but he wanted to go again) and needed someone to do the drop off and pickup. Willing to do that to get #4 out! Picked up five of his friends. Good kids. The movie ended at 9:40, but I was still up. Hubs wasn't even home ... never made it home! He had dropped his car off to have the brakes looked at, and the shop didn't finish up the work. Rather than Ubering all the way home, he had a work bud pick him up and he crashed at his house. Hadn't planned on this though ... he needs to take a second shirt in, just in case. It isn't the first time it's happened. I ended up staying up late, still didn't quite get my weekly blog post done (computer troubles at the end, I gave and up figured I'd finish up tomorrow).
0814 (Wednesday) Weight 172.8. Steps 16351. Total Burn 2654. Exercise Burn 375/848 (Zumba). Calories in 2600. Night without Hubby. I thought perhaps I'd sleep in without him getting up to wake me, but I was still awake early. Now I just need to start actually getting out of bed faster once I wake and not lazing around. I got in one elliptical session. I was getting ready for Zumba when the male duck started chasing HQ, so I went and separated them and penned them up again. I was running a little late when the phone rang, and it was the school district on the caller id. I figured I'd better answer. The situation ... with us still being on the rolls at Elkridge even though our permit was revoked had been investigated and ... they were making #5 switch to Joel P. Even though we had accepted that, hadn't even tried to renew the permit, once this snafu happened we'd decided to just go with Elkridge. To have that taken away now ... just a few days before school starts! I have to squish him into classes at a school that wasn't expecting him when he WAS already counted and enrolled at the other school. Just so frustrating. I held it together and was pretty nice about it, and the lady calling was super nice about it. And I stopped by Joel P after Zumba and they were super nice about it. I filled out the registration. Again. I had done this in the Spring. Had to go home and re-register him. Again. Now we wait for the schedule. Not that there was a lot of class choice at this age, but I hope they don't stick him in choir or something. He would hate that! Joel P does have a "team sports" class that Elkridge didn't that can hopefully fill in some space that he would enjoy. The start/end time would probably be better just with having to get #4 to school too. Trying to focus on the positives. There ARE positives (which is why we did decide on Joel P back when the permit issue came up) but then to have all this back and forth happen! I'm afraid I did break down when I told him the news, and he cried too. I actually don't think he'd had that many friends in classes/lunch and such, but still, he does have a ton of friends there. Not that he won't make friends at the new school, and there are kids he knows from elementary (Columbia was so long ago, but half of Terra Linda went to Joel P, the other half to Elkridge). Making friends at Joel P will be better for moving into WJ High school, and Joel P will be a LOT better if (when) he makes the high school team as a freshman and needs to leave school for practice (he should just be able to walk, as the middle school and high school back each other, whereas I'd have to pick him and and take him from Elkridge). I watched to see if his schedule showed, but nothing by end of day. As soon as it does, we'll map everything out, then go and physically find his classrooms and such so he'll be comfortable. With the boundary changes, there should be quite a few new kids, more than just the usual move ins and 7th graders. Anyway, I was pretty emotionally drained. Sweet #3 immediately started talking about the pros to the change, and then took the two littles out to Chick-Fil-A, and #5 bounced back pretty quick (at least to what I could see). The plumber(s) came a little later, and switched out some pipes. Just like clogged arteries, there was a ton of build-up and they said they were not at all surprised the water pressure had been so low. #2 took a shower when he got home from work and said he could totally tell as the water blasted him. I made chicken alfredo for dinner, and chocolate malts for dessert. Hubs finally made it home! Still didn't have his car though. Two uber expensive fixes this past week (alternator and brakes). One of his work buds had a car he loaned him, so there is a Camero in the driveway. Hubs commented on the feathers in the backyard. When I let the ducks wander, the feathers go flying. I found a drowned mouse in the water bucket today. I guess it accidentally jumped in? Also saw a snake. Third day in a row. It seems to be hanging out in the duck pen. I wonder if it eats mice? #2 went to play basketball at the church (nice that I have a key, as the church was locked) and #3 joined him. I distracted during Zumba, forgot a few steps when I was leading! I was also a little late getting there. Stats: 5463/5391 steps. 402/344 burn. AvHR120. High153. In Zone 35 of the 58 minutes.
0815 (Thursday) Weight 173.9. Steps 18046. Total Burn 2783. Exercise Burn 470/991 (Zumba). Calories in 2100. Today was a "school" day. I got up and checked to see if #5's schedule had been added before I headed out to Zumba, but nothing yet. I checked after, and it was there. A couple problems. They had him in 8th grade math (understandable, as he's an 8th grader, but he took 8thMathHonors last year, cause he's a smarty pants) and Digital Literacy (another one he'd taken at Elkridge in 7th). So, instead of hitting my small shopping list, I went straight to the school. They were super easy to work with. I knew #5's friend had math first period, and managed to get him into that class. Then I brought up the TeamSports class, which was one my #5 would like, and got him in that. Then I went home and got #5 and came back to the school and we mapped out all the classes and walked the day. This school has a set-up I've never seen before, where there are classroom clusters, and the only way to access the back classroom is to walk through another classroom. I guess it saves some space eliminating an extra hallway. They had assigned him a locker and we found that. Figured out lunch and such. So I think he's set and feeling a bit better about it. This WAS the original plan after all, before the registration snafuu (I'll need to follow-up and make sure I get refunded my fees I paid to Elkridge). I had prepped the house before Zumba in case the cleaners came early, but I was thinking it was a "later" day. They had texted asking if 12:30 worked (instead of 11:30) and that was better for today, with all my school stuff. #3 took #5 out for a haircut and Habit to get them out of the way, and I was off with #4 to the high school to meet with the school psychologist, whom I'd contacted earlier, to set up a siple 504 for #4. I was a little frustrated as I'd had the whole school schedule/map and everything out from orientation day, and now I couldn't find where I'd put it. I quickly printed some stuff out again, but the page didn't have the room #'s, and the school seems to be a big dead spot for cell service. I did manage to get a print-out so we could explore. We met with Mr. Thurgood. I didn't have huge hopes, as this is ONE man for the entire school, but he really seemed to connect with #4 discussing NFL and NBA. Very personable.Set up a simple 504, saying #4 could leave the classroom and come to the counseling center whenever needed to talk, sit, or just get away from where people could see him losing it emotionally. Then we went on a tour of the school, finding all the classrooms and lunchroom and such. A bit of walking (#4 didn't have his Fitbit, but I did). Lots of up and down stairs too. I felt the afternoon went better than expected. So often after #4 has an experience that drains him (which these doctors/school, etc often do) he shuts down and retreats. He was still somewhat talkative though, sitting in the front seat, did NOT go take a nap when we got home. I take that as a good sign. We stopped at the drycleaners to grab shirts, then went to Wendys, as #4 wanted to try the spicy chicken nuggets (got a baconator too). Then I swung by the library and went and grabbed a couple books I'd put on hold for #5 ... back when Elkridge was the option, and they have DEAR (drop everything and read) every day. Joel P doesn't have that, they have RTI, which is time to work on whatever you need, and if you are caught-up, you get to play (the older boy's school called it "Ketchup and Relish" which I thought was a cute and clever name). But, in case they are supposed to read something for English, and they have a choice, I have them on hand. So overall, felt like a productive day with some school progress made. Didn't get in any additional exercise though. Stats for Zumba were 6441/6236 steps. 519/406 burn. AvHR131/High152. In zone 55 of the 60 minutes... although I honestly didn't feel like it was some super workout class. Sometimes I'm not sure of these numbers! #1 came and took the two littles to a movie, and when they got back, #4 and I went over the "100 most commonly asked questions" from a DMV practice test.
0816 (Friday) Weight 173.9. Steps 17126. Total Burn 2701. Exercise Burn 360/907 (Zumba). Calories in 2300. I was awake in the night, from about 2:00-4:00. Hubs was off early. I did fall back to sleep and then slept in. No extra exercise before Zumba. Kirsten is introducing a Friday class (actually Megan, the new instructor on Monday) and asked if I'd be coming ... but I have a hard time bailing on MZL, and I feel like I get a better workout at MZL. I WILL be able to hit Friday Zumba though, with the school switch, so if MZL ever cancels I'll try it out. Stats at class today were a little low. SO hot, and ran a bit short. 4964/5011 steps. 369/349 burn. AvHR116. High145. In Zone 23 of the 58 minutes. I went to Smiths afterward. My shopping has been impacted this week as I've got distracted with school stuff. Needed some stuff, and hit some sales. Home to unload and get things put away. I should have hit the home gym, but I admit, I was a little stressed over the upcoming DMV appointment. It wasn't good. It was crazy busy. Even though we had an appointment and got in pretty fast for the picture (looked like a mug shot for #4) and initial paperwork, and then the permit process, the line for the written test was SO long. And then he didn't pass. 37 out of 50, when he needed 40 out of 50. He could have taken the test again (that happened to #3, and he passed on his second round) but #4 was upset, and the line was so long. So ... another day I guess. I had just hoped that maybe he'd make it the first try, but not super surprised he didn't either. He didn't do a ton of studying (even with all my nagging) and never pays attention when we are on the road, and didn't even really want it (except to get me to stop bugging him). He pulled the "sit in the back seat" on the way home. I stopped at PetSmart, and we went and picked up a doggy toy. We are watching the dog next door as the neighbor's are out of town. Last time the boys had done this there was a fun pull toy. They couldn't find it now (perhaps it had been chewed up and destroyed) and they wanted one. I figured it would maybe get his mind moving again. But, he went straight to bed when we got home. #5 went over and played with the dog for a bit, before I needed to drop him off to practice. I was planning on hitting SamsClub on the way home, but traffic was crazy and I didn't feel up it. Have to hit Sams tomorrow. I mowed the front lawn, and let Remi out while I did (as she's always out with her owners while they do yardwork, a good girl staying in the yard). #4 came out and then took her back to the house to play in the backyard. In the evening, the boys went over to watch a movie next door (allowing the dog out again ... if no one is home she needs to be in the crate) and then #3 and #5 ended up sleeping over. Hubs needed a mental health day, leaving work early to go visit Pineview. Didn't have the waverunners or anyone (other than A? Sent some bizarrish texts to the boys) just sitting enjoying the view. He was trying to arrange a trip for Sunday, but the boys are busy. #2 is in Georgia, #3 has a farewell.
0817 (Saturday) Weight 172.8. Steps 13458. Total Burn 2442. Exercise Burn 0/657 (no exercise). Calories in 2500. Awake for a couple hours in the night, from 1:30ish until 3:30ish. Ugg. At least I could sleep in. I actually got an egg today! Only GG has been laying, and someone's been breaking hers, but today I got it intact. Hubs went and bought a water filter for the house (after installing one in the laundry room a couple weeks ago, and one on the fridge last week) and then went into work for a bit. I got the backyard mowed and transplanted a couple tomato plants that were struggling in the spots they were in. A couple weeks ago, I'd seen an event adversited on Facebook, a "monarch release" over at the Conservation Gardens close by. Hubs has a facination with monarchs. Fond memories of when he was little, and his family would find the caterpilars and collect a couple. Keep them in a jar, feeding them milkweed. Watching them turn into a crysalysis and then butterfly. Unfortunately, monarchs have all but disappeared (pestisides, very little milkweed, etc). Neither of us has seen one around here in years. We didn't leave quite early enough to get there without any stress. Hit some traffic, and then had to park pretty far away. They had a shuttle, but we just hoofed it, a little hike, and we made it to the little amphitheater just in time. Still had a good view when the monarchs went flying. Fun to see them landing in the trees and on people. They had a bunch of flowers right in front, where many landed, but it was pretty crowded and we weren't able to get close. We walked around the gardens and then wandered back. Hubs chatted with the fellow in charge, and he ended up taking us back to where the next set of butterflies was waiting (there were to release times, 250 butterflies each). He said they are actually refridgerated for transport, and when cool, they "sleep" and appear dead. He had to pull them out to "warm up" for the next release. It was interesting to learn a little more about it all (the breeding, licencing, etc.) Hubs would really just like to find some eggs and repeat the process from his childhood, but there are restrictions on shipping them across state lines. We have a milkweed plant that I've not pulled up, just on the off-chance that we might get a monarch to lay eggs on it (hasn't happened). It was a fun little date. #1 had come and taken the two littles to a movie ... two movies in fact. #3 was off at a "send-off social" for Cam, leaving on his mission, his church farewell is tomorrow. I suggested to Hubs we could make our evening even more of a date ... Monarchs AND a movie. We watched "Bohemian Rhapsody" and he made popcorn.
0818 (Sunday) Weight 174.4. Steps 10759. Total Burn 2343. Exercise Burn 0/546 (no exercise). Calories in 2400. Hubs had wanted to hit the lake, but didn't have any takers ... so no lake. He said it was okay to have a day with nothing to do too. He needed to run over to the storage unit (had picked up a new lock, with duplicate keys, which we've needed) and as I've never seen it, I went with him. Almost like a date. Only the two littles were home, and we just never got around to making breakfast today.
0819 (Monday) Weight 177.4. Steps 32348. Total Burn 3396. Exercise Burn 1347/1592 (60minElliptical, Zumba, 70min/4milesTreadmill). Calories in 750. Horrible night for sleep. Lots of nightmares for me ... a lot about #4 and the bus. So I was up around 5:30. Woke the boys around 6:00. #3 was off for his first day of work, and #4 for his first day of 10th grade. For some reason I had thought today was a half day, sophomores only. I know the schools have done that in the past, and the middle schools were doing that for the 7th graders. But no ... it was a regular day! I hadn't prepped #4 for that and I felt awful. I had dropped him off in the morning with no issues. Not from him, nor the bus. We are not in the bus boundary, and I wasn't sure if they would ask or check in some way, although I doubted it. High school buses always have oodles of room as so many students drive or carpool, or have to go early or late. So, no problems. I texted #4 to note the bus # so he could find it ... which he didn't do, but managed to find a friend who remembered. I wasn't able to check in with him during the day. First, no phones allowed. Second, the whole school is one big dead spot. Third ... his phone wasn't really charged and didn't have much battery. I did get a notification when he left the school, and I was there waiting when the bus dropped him off. The bus was a little late at drop off ... not pick up though, there were a lot of kids running to make it! #5 was home, starting tomorrow. I got in two elliptical sessions early, then went to Zumba w/Kirsten. She Had to leave halfway though and had asked me, Carma and Megan to finish the class. Megan went ahead and did it all. Sometimes you click with an instructor and sometimes you don't. Everyone has different styles. I don't love some of the stuff ... I don't like freestyle or dance offs, and I know a couple of the ladies really don't like group numbers. She finished off with Abs on the floor. I don't do the floor. Stats: 4832/4798 steps. 397/302 burn. AvHR120. High147. In Zone 28 of the 53 minutes. Carma had been late and was flustered. Not a good morning with her son that they struggle with. Much harder situation than my #4. For all his issues, I know it could be so much worse, and is for other parents/kids. After class I went to Maceys. The Hostess was cleared out, but I got a raincheck. Picked up some groceries. At home I cleaned out the veggie drawer and got everything put away. Did two miles treadmill, then did some kitchen cleanup and laundry. #2 made it home from his trip ... needed a nap. Got in my third elliptical session then vacuumed the downstairs and got #4's room cleaned up and clothes away. Then it was time for pickup. He seemed quite down, but wouldn't walk about his day. I could barely get any answers even to simple questions. He wouldn't look at me, kept his eyes to the side ... so I couldn't see the tears :( I still saw them. Not sure if anything happened, or just the overwheming idea of three more years of school ahead. He hadn't eaten anything for lunch (barely had breakfast ... of course I hadn't either. I had kept up my fasting, I'd started later last night, but still had hit 16 hours a bit ago). I made him some hamburger, and I ate too. He then disappeared to his room for a nap. I needed to run #5 to his basketball camp, then I hurried and tried to get some dinner done for a starving #3 who'd made it home from his first day (he complained about this and that and that and this, and it was hard and he was exhausted ... but other than that it was okay). So anyway, leftover spaghetti for another time. It's better leftover anyway, right? That's what my dad always said. Then Hubs and I headed over to a neighbor's for an ice cream social. Wasn't very well attended. I had to sneak out early to grab #5. I'd offered to give Collin and Gage rides home (as both their families help me out a ton) but their parents had stayed to watch the practice anyway. So #5 and I stopped back at the ice cream social, even though they'd started to clean up (I had called #4 to see if he'd come up I swung by to pick him up, but he said no). #5 got some oreo ice cream, and it made the cutest muschache on him! They had a lot of leftover cookies, which they sent home with us. They will get eaten. Back at home, I helped #4 with a video upload (had to transfer from his phone to the computer to upload) then gathered some supplies and filled out a couple of disclosures. It was getting dark, so I hurried out to water the plants and restock food/water for the ducks. Hubs was already asleep, so I got some computer work done before heading to bed myself.
0820 (Tuesday) Weight 174.0. Steps 30182. Total Burn 3244. Exercise Burn 1225/1464 (60minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 1800. Even after the long day, I had trouble falling asleep. Then, I was awake just before 3:00. Hubs was too, and he got up and went to work. I actually went ahead and got up at 4:30 after I hadn't been able to fall back asleep. I went down and did two miles on the treadmill, then did some computer work. Woke the crew around 6:00. I was making lunches and breakfasts (fruit smoothie). The two older boys were working the same job site, so they left together just before I left with #4 to the bus stop. I got back and got 10min elliptical in before it was time to take #5. He casually mentions that it says Language Arts 9 on his schedule ... which, while he's in 9th grade math, he should NOT be in 9th grade English. He apparently noticed a few days ago but only mentioned it now??? We were already a little late getting off, and being my first time, I don't really know any tricks, other than using the church parking lot (my Monday Zumba church). Traffic was pretty backed up getting there though. He didn't feel like we had time to address the issue before school today, but I felt it needed to be fixed ASAP. He went ahead and headed to his first period and I went in to the counseling center. One of counselors was able to meet with me and confirm that he should not be in that class. Unfortunately, there wasn't an LA8 class that same period, so he had to juggle and move a couple of the other classes. He printed out the changes and then ran them down to #5 in his first class. It changed his lunch, and where the classes were, but #5 said he managed okay. So glad he's adaptable! I came home and did a session on the elliptical then headed to Zumba at the church. Stats: 6956/5703 steps. 480/369 burn. AvHR123. High142. In Zone 53 of the 64 minutes. Home ... to a quiet house. Alone. I like some alone time. Got another elliptical session in, did some clean up, computer work, duck duty. Anxious to hear how the day went for the boys, as with the high school A/B schedule, today was a "first" again for #4. For pickup, I went to get #5 first, again meeting at the church parking lot. It took a while to get out of it. I'd ordered some pizza at Little Caesars, and checking "Find My Friends" figured we had time to grab it before picking up #4. But, they hadn't programmed us in, so we had to wait and talk to a person (I love the pizza portal, so I don't have to have any interaction ... it's like a big vending machine). That also took us a couple minutes longer and #4 beat us to the bus stop. Any little thing like that can stress him out ... but he seemed okay today. He even chatted a bit. He actually chatted a lot. He stayed upstairs and seemed in a pretty good mood. He did disappear a little later to take a nap. I don't think a nap is necessarily bad, or a sign he's crashing ... it can also just be that he's tired with the new schedule. He seemed okay when he came back upstairs too. I'd stuck some chicken in the crock pot, making "crack chicken" ala Pinterest. #4 liked it. #3 thought it was okay. #1 stopped by and liked it a lot too. Hubs can even eat it, it's Keto if you don't put it on a bun. #3 went to Walmart to get him a big thermos for water, as he went through all of his (and his brother's) today. I had him pick up some meat for sandwiches, so I can give him a little variety. Hubs was late again, around 8:30.
0821 (Wednesday) Weight 171.7. Steps 16728. Total Burn 2661. Exercise Burn 324/888 (Zumba). Calories in 900. Oy ... a day. I had gotten up and made sandwiches for #3's lunch. #4 came up and went into the front room and I could tell he was off. I went to talk to him and ... that was that. When he does talk and break down, then the day is over. The emotional upheaval just does him in. I had SO hoped that high school would work out. That his friends would get him through ... I think they made the difference in the transition to middle school. But, I guess they have been drifting apart for a while now. Even all of last year and the end of 8th. It's hard, as they all live in the same neighborhood, go to church together, and have so many other interests. Plus, they seem to be growing and changing, whereas #4 still the same. I know it's hard when #4 doesn't talk a lot, or participate, he didn't join them playing ball, etc. The boys aren't cruel, not saying anything mean or doing anything ... it is just that, not really talking or including. He feels invisible. So he was in bed for the rest of the day. I still made it to Zumba, but the rest of the day was shot. My FB group for "Parents of Children with Anxiety and Depression" is helpful, as there are tons of posts from people regarding "school refusal" ... and it's not like this is really anything new or unexpected. He struggled entering kindergarten, wanted to be home schooled in 2nd, and 5th, I worried so much before 7th ... and then all of last year. There are online schools, or the district can work it out so it's part time, and independent study. Lots of research. Writing up an email to the school (VP and counselor, school psychologist ... and a couple names had changed, they need to update the website!) I went to pick up #5 from school at 2:30. I had forgotten he was staying for intramurals. None of the kids he knew (Gage, Collin or Carter) had stayed, but that didn't deter him. How different can my two littles be? So back to get him at 3:40. Emotionally exhausted today, but ended up staying up late talking with #3 (#4 around but not really participating). Hubs had come home, but headed to bed before we really got to talk.
0822 (Thursday)Weight 170.4. 12624 steps. Total Burn 2436. Exercise Burn 230/676 (Zumba). Calories in 1200. I figured I'd let #4 sleep in. First class is "Careers" which is basically filler. I thought I'd go to Zumba, then see if he was up for going to Physics, History and Math. He was not. Then I said just math. I pulled him out of bed and pushed it a bit, and he had a complete melt-down. Pacing around, crying, saying "I can't do it" over and over ... and over. I don't think part time is even going to come close to working. He's resisting even stepping foot back in the school at this point. We have an appointment Monday morning with the school team to see what would work, but ... I don't know that it's going to happen. Researched more online options and made some initial inquiries and unfortunately we really have to move. The online schools have enrollment caps and deadlines too. A couple were already full, and one had a deadline of tomorrow. I went ahead and put in our info to get things going. Narrowed it to two options, Connections Academy (Utah branch of a national/international K-12) and a local 7-12 (Mountain Heights Academy). I'd heard a radio add for it, and someone mentioned it on FB in response to one of my inquiry posts. Connections has good reviews too. I also touched base with a high school friend who I'd recently been back in contact with (ironically it's my 30 year high school reunion on Saturday ... it does still pain me to think of #4 not having that high school experience. Totally hard on #3 too, who loved the social aspect of school. #2 had a perfect high school experience. #1 was not as social, but still involved and enjoyed it). As the day ended, I did get an offer of enrollment from MountainHeights, and I think that was where I was leaning anyway. They are located in West Jordan (whereas the Utah Connections is in WoodsCross), and I think I like that it's just aimed at the older grades (as I'm not needing any of the elementary info at this point). Talked with #4 and I think he's feeling a bit better. His friends have not checked in with him to see if he's okay, having missed a second day of school :( I wonder if they are actually releaved. They are good kids, it just is a little disappointing. I guess you just can't expect/need that much from 15-16 year old kids. This will probably be the end of the friendship (as #4 feels even more awkward now) ... and those are really the only friends he's ever had. Made in the 5th grade. #2's girlfriend was over and wanted to go hit the cookie place. They'd talked #3 into going, and I suggested we make it a family field trip. I THOUGHT they were just going to the new cookie place in Jordan Landing (5min away) ... but she's loyal to a different one, downtown (like 20+min away, on the freeway ... I didn't know that when I agreed to join them, but if I'm pushing #4 to face his demons I guess I have to too). #4 was still quiet and reserved for the ride down, and unsmiling for the picture (breaks my heart, and his depression is so completely caught in photos), but perked up a little on the way home. I was late, but I made it to Zumba. 3216/3431 steps. 314/225 burn. AvHR109. High139. In Zone 12 of the 52 minutes.
0823 (Friday) Weight 169.1. Steps 24283. Exercise Burn 850/1187 (30minElliptical, Zumba, 34min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 1700. I had my alarm set for a little later, as the middle school (and high school ... but #4 wasn't going of course) had late start. I was still awake early though, so I went ahead and got up. Hit the elliptical, some computer stuff, fed the kitties, then two miles treadmill. The two littles were up. I had a small "school" list for #4 to do while I went to Zumba and ran errands. I want to get a routine where he starts his day with exercise (and uses the gym while I'm gone anyway), then I had him to an online demo class, and then record all the movies he saw over the summer (I like tracking stuff like that, might make him write reviews). I dropped #5 off. Fridays have a bit of a different traffice pattern. Not as busy on some streets, but I'll have to make adjustments still for next time. The one road I sometimes come down was blocked off ... found out later it was a gas leak, and they even evacuated a nearby neighborhood. Zumba had started when I got there. Still uber warm. Stats: 5200/5067 steps. 361/317 burn. AvHR115. High155. In Zone 20 of the 60 minutes. After class I drove out to Bingham to pick up the transcript and immunization record. I had called yesterday, so I was all printed out. Ironic that then I have to go scan it ... wish I could have just been given a digital copy. I stopped by Elkridge too, to get the 7th,8th,9th grade stuff, but then found the report cards online, which was more compact and clear anyway. I had stopped at Savers, as it was close to Bingham. Got some more new/old clothes for #4. Want to make sure he has oodles of clothes so he will change (not wear things for a couple days in a row) when dirty/sweaty. Found some Adidas and Nike stuff. I had planned on stopped at Costco, but I didn't get in the correct lane to turn, and just bagged it (all I was getting there really was the Premier Protein for #3 while it's on sale. Hopefully Hubs will be making a trip in before the deal is done). I still stopped at Smiths to grab other groceries. Had #4 unload, as I got the documents uploaded (there was a 3:00 deadline). Then he and I headed out to the PC Counseling. Discussed the current situation, the Dr. thought the online schooling was a good option. We are going to try a new medication, Ambilify. Hopefully weight gain won't be a side-effect, as that's already a struggle with #4. Got on the list for testing. He does have some signs of ASD, and I guess it's best to know if yes he is, or if it's just his personality. They will call to set that up, and we'll follow up with another doctor, as the one we were seeing is leaving that practice. I'd made arrangements for #5 to go home with Gage, although we were done about the same time. We actually were there waiting for him at that house, we could have come and grabbed him from the school. I just have to make backup plans because I never know for sure. At home, I needed to go out for my duck/plant duty. I had fed the ducks yesterday, but didn't do my usual evening watering. My paperwork had gone through, so I went onto the next steps for registering #4, filling out family forms, and then choosing classes. We have one last step of going in and meeting the teachers and picking up a school laptop, I think that will be Monday. I have to wait and hear on a time/date. #3 texted from the road that he was on his way home, and hungry. So I started making dinner. Tacos, beef and chicken. Had to have #4 watch the chicken (just simmering) while I dropped #5 off to catch his ride to practice. Got dinner done by the time #3 got home (bad traffic, took him longer). Chocolate malt for dessert, then #2, #3 and #4 went to meet #1 to go to a movie. Hubs had taken the waverunners with him this morning, and hit the lake with a work buddy and his boys.
0824 (Saturday) Weight 169.1. Steps 13932. Total Burn 2458. Exercise Burn 303/699 (30minElliptical). Calories in 1750. I got up and hit the elliptical pretty early. It was National Waffle Day, and #1 and Sol came over and made waffles. I added bacon and hashbrowns. The boys talked about going to a movie, The Angel Has Fallen, which is the third in the series. #4 had watched the first (Olympus has Fallen, on Netflix), and wanted to see the second. It wasn't streaming anywhere, but I saw that the West Jordan library had it in. So, I took #4 and we went. #4 wasn't happy about the outing. The place was packed. I forgot it was the Pet-Palooza there at the park in back. Anyway, we finally found a spot to park, then went in and found the DVD. I have been using Bingham Creek Library, but West Jordan is more on the way of my usual comings and goings. I'll try to make the switch. Back at home, I mentioned to #1 about the Pet-Palooza and he and his wife ended up going ... and ended up adopting a dog! So spur of the moment! Hubs had gone to work for a bit, then ran some errands, stopping at Costco and the meat market. I got the lawn mowed. Got an egg today. Really need to rework my office, but that will be a huge job, gotta gear up for that a bit. Hubs and #5 had the leftover tacos, and Hubs was impressed with my seasoning. I'm happy when I find little discoveries he's impressed with. I made it back down to the gym for 10min elliptical. #3 ran the two littles over to #1's house to see the new puppy, then #1 took #4 to a movie. #2 and K8 made brownies here at home and then watched a video. One of Hub's work buddies gave #2 a HUGE television!
0825 (Sunday) Weight 169.5. Steps 11216. Total burn 2332. Exercise Burn 180/472 (35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 3000. Hubs was off in the morning for some Razor riding. I made french toast for breakfast. The three littles were SO loud playing video games. #2 was off to a homecoming. #4 and I ran out to Big5, as I'd seen a cute cap on sale and wanted his opinion. Unfortunately they didn't have much selection at all. I ended up getting him a pair of shorts ($10 of $35 coupon) as well. Hit the treadmill for two miles. #1 and Sol brought the two doggies over for a visit. We'd made plans for a birthday dinner, it's #4's 16th b-day on Wednesday. #2 and #3 are going to be out of town on a work trip (just to Bear Lake for a couple of days) and #5 has practice that night ... and Hubs scheduled a derby. I guess #4 worked a derby on his birthday last year, and he said he would this year too. Anyway, off to Tepanyaki for an early dinner. Yummy as usual. Hubs and I both laid down and rested our eyes for a bit after. My brother was out doing driving practice with his youngest and stopped by to check out Hub's garage (he'd heard a lot about it, but hadn't seen it yet). I took my car to fill it up with gas. Tried to get caught up on some computer stuff.
0826 (Monday) Weight 174.4. Steps 22306. Total burn 2980. Exercise Burn 578/1207 (40minElliptical, Zumba). Calories in 1800. Hubs was having a little trouble with his alarm last night. I woke at 5:00 to make sure he was up when he wanted. I got up around 5:30. Did my weigh-in and made sandwiches for the working boys. #4 and I were off early to go to the school. Initially this was to discuss options, but we've made up our mind to try the online schooling. I would have called to see if they still wanted the meeting, but there was so little time (after our acceptance on Friday, and this appointment first thing this morning). It was nice to feel the school cared, and would have had some options (like just two classes at school, and then a couple others online through them), but trying to get him there at all I think would have been so much work, with little return on the social (and perhaps even more harm, if cruelty and bullying happened). So it was pretty quick, we were in and out. I almost could have made it home in time to get #5 to school, but I'd made arrangements ... although I felt guilty about it, as we were really not at all on their way (Coach's wife came and got him). I set up #4 doing a few things, exercise and then the Cyber Driver's Ed. I'd bought it more as a study guide to prep him for the learner's permit, but it IS actually a class that can count if completed. So ... had him work on that. I went to Zumba, it was just me and Kirsten teaching today. Stats: 5347/4998 steps. 416/327 burn. AvHR120. High147. In Zone 34 of the 56 minutes. I stopped at Joel P afterward for a couple questions, then went to Sam'sClub. Picked up some storage solutions. Not sure how much paperwork #4 will have with online school, but wanted some options, and I want to clean up my area as well. I did a little work on my office, but it's going to be a BIG job, and will take a while. Did a little work in #4's room too. A little more online research for more apps and options for home learning and supplementing whatever school will be. Unfortunately, we didn't get an orientation appointment today as I'd hoped. School starts tomorrow, but our orientation isn't until Wednesday morning. So he'll miss the first day of school and start out behind. Not as big a deal with online though, I'm sure he'll catch up quick, but I am anxious to understand how it all works. I hit the elliptical for a second session, then picked up #5 from school. Prepped dinner, made chicken and rice for the two littles (#4 had gone down for a nap) and black bean and spinach enchiladas for the bigger boys. I had stopped at Popeyes after my shopping, and #4 and I had some for lunch. #3 came home and started eating that, when I pointed out the enchiladas. That was supposed to be his dinner. I'd gone and grabbed #1, home without a car. He ran to the store and then made some beans, but he had an enchilada too. Hubs was home fairly late. Like almost 8:00. #5 had practice tonight. Glad the inserts seem to be keeping his heel from hurting.
0827 (Tuesday) Weight 171.6. Steps 28692. Total Burn 3169. Exercise Burn 1134/1408 (50minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 2000. Getting up early hasn't really been an issue. I've generally been waking up before the alarm. I didn't wake #5 early enough today though, he wants to be up by about 6:30. I mean, he could set his own alarm ... I got in two 20min elliptical sessions in early. Zumba over at the church. Stats: 6184 /6191 steps. 474/381 burn. AvHR120/151. In Zone 32 of the 65 minutes. Today is the official start of school for #4 at Mountain Heights, but we haven't been to orientation yet, so ... another "home" school day. I had the CyberDriversEd and practice tests, vocabulary apps, Duolingo, and treadmill time on the docket for him. I had a dentist appointment for #5 at 3:00, which worked with Joel Ps end time. We had time to stop at home so he could brush his teeth, then we were off. The put in some spacers and did prep work. Afterward, he and I went to a few stores to try and find some basketball shorts. Bad timing though. They've almost all been clearanced! None at Walmart (we ran into Coach and his wife and Drewbie), got a couple at Target, along with a new backpack. We tried Ross and Kohls, but no luck. I might have to check out thrift stores. #2 and #3 had left early this morning for Bear Lake, spending a couple days on a job up there. Hubs had a derby in the evening, and #4 was going along to help. Hubs had to play musical trailers to get the derby trailer out and available, and he wanted to leave it available, as he has a derby tomorrow, and more coming up. I was glad that #4 got out of the house and had to socialize, and earned a little money while doing so.
0828 (Wednesday) Weight 170.8. Steps 24608. Total Burn 3055. Exercise Burn 595/1289 (40minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 1780. Made sure I got the munchkin up early today. #4 was also up early on his own, hitting the hot tub. Happy 16th to him. I got two elliptical sessions in, and #5 dropped off at school. Then #4 and I headed out to his orientation. It wasn't far, just 1300 W and 9000 S. Everything was really organized and I was impressed with the set up. There was someone there to welcome us as we stepped off the elevator. We got a step-by-step checklist, his schedule (which had also been emailed that morning, along with a syllabus for each class ... all daily tasks and assignments for the year outlined), then got his picture take (they still do a yearbook and activity card), learned how to sign on, got his own Chromebook and other materials (a math book and some stuff for chemistry). Met the school counselor and some others in administration. Took about 20minutes. We stopped at Reams on the way home. Grabbed an Oreo ice cream cake, the main reason for the stop. Also got some groceries (salad, chicken, onion, peas, bread) while we were there. Then, home and starting school. He was technically a day behind, as school had started yesterday. Slow start this morning too. It took him most of the day, but I think he is caught up. English took the longest (and he had me help a little, I do like to see what they are working on). I got chicken in the crockpot, for "Crack Chicken" for dinner and then continued to work on office cleanup. Clearing out all the old boxes, going through papers and other things. Reorganizing. Hit the treadmill for two miles. #4 didn't make it down today, but actual school stuff was more important. I picked up #5 after intramurals. He had forgotten to wear his Fitbit Mon/Tues but had today, and had 17k! Just from school (he does have gym) and intramurals? He does spin it around his finger when he's board. He might be getting some steps that way (not on purpose, but still ...). He only had a bit of downtime before it was time to head out to the WJ clinic. We picked up C&G on the way. Meanwhile, Hubs and #4 left for a derby. I stopped at Maceys, grabbing more rolls, and checking out the ad. I hadn't received one. They had Coke 2-liters on sale, and I needed to replenish Hub's Fresca. Also got more of the sour Kool-Aid (not that we need any more pouches, but #3 really liked the sour flavors). Hubs called saying they were having audio issues and wondered if I could run out the portable speaker. Luckily, they weren't too far, just in SJ, where I dared drive. #1 actually stopped home, and I was going to send him (I figured he might get there a few minutes sooner) and he was willing, but also had a "homecoming" thing he was going to. So I ran the speaker out. Back home to unload, and it was time to head back to pick up the boys. When I got back, I quickly mowed the front lawn and watered the garden and ducks. I checked Find my Friends ... #1 was with Hubs! His homecoming party was at the same church where Hubs was going the derby. How's that for a coincidence? I tried to get the kitchen cleaned up a little (still had organizing stuff all over). Hubs had some steaks in the Sous Vide, which he quickly finished up when he and #4 got home. #1 and wife stopped by too, with a gift for #4. Then we had cake. I had looked into buying a filing cabinet on FB Marketplace. The one I liked was actually being sold by a friend of #2's! He even delivered it. I had #1 take it downstairs into #4's room. Attempting to get organized! The two working boys got home late ... I had thought they weren't coming home until tomorrow.
0829 (Thursday) Weight 170.5. Steps 25349. Total Burn 2974. Exercise Burn 1050/1213 (40minElliptical, Zumba, 35min/2milesTreadmill). Calories in 2200. Started the day with a couple elliptical sessions. Made lunch for #3 (#2 packs his own) and got #5 off to school. I know there are others in the neighborhood going, and I wonder if I should look into carpools. It has its pros and cons. Made sure #4 was getting started on his school day, and that the house was prepped for cleaners, even though it was a "later" day. Garbage day ... will be glad to have the bins empty so I can fill them again. Headed out to Zumba. Stats: 6037/5829 steps. 489/328 burn. AvHR118. High159. In Zone 29 of the 68 minutes. Straight home after, and rechecked the house to make sure it was ready. I was really hungry, and a little lightheaded. I don't always make the best food choices. Got #4 settled downstairs, doing his school in his room while the cleaners are here. I hit the gym, for treadmill time then some weights. More work in the office. Looking over some of the kids old school work, fun to see! Did some book reviews and finally finished up my weekly blog post. #4 had a couple live sessions and a video conference with his math teacher. Hubs had a work dinner, but actually wasn't much later than he often is when he stays working. #1 came over with the two doggies, and made brownies. #4 got two brothers to play basketball, getting in his workout for the day.
0830 (Friday) Weight 170.2. Steps 22316. Total Burn 2923. Exercise Burn 612/1159 (20minElliptical, Zumba). Calories in 2600. Late start Friday. The good thing about the switch to Joel P is that I can hit Friday Zumba. I was still a little off schedule. I woke #5 at 7:30, when he could have slept until 8:30 (I was thinking of the high school time, which is later, but not as late as the middle schools). I got one elliptical session in, then dropped #5 off and headed to Zumba. Happily, the A/C was working in the building finally! Felt good. Stats: 6134/5757 steps. 484/353 burn. AvHR126. High154. In Zone 44 of the 60 minutes. I'd forgotten my phone at home, but planned on going straight home anyway. I usually stop at a store on Fridays, but hadn't quite finalized my shopping list. When I got home, #2 mentioned today was the day for the proposal to his long-time girl friend. He'd mentioned it earlier, but I thought it was in the evening in her family backyard. He was doing it in the afternoon in OUR backyard. So, I had to mow and trim and clean things up (he actually said I didn't need to worry about it, but I felt like I needed to!) Unfortunately the trimmer string went out. I did the best I could by the fence with the edger. Pruned the sunflower bush, which was the backdrop. #4 and I ran to Lowes and got more mulch (something I'd planned on anyway) and made the flowerbeds look better. My fingers were filthy and I was SO hot. #2 had purchased a bunch of sunflowers, and we picked more from our yard and #3 went and gathered more wild ones. K8's brother and wife came over to help too. Made a big sunflower heart, and then a walkway with sunflowers and pictures. I had to run pick up #5 from school, and Hubs made it home just in time. #1 and Sol came over too, so we were all here, her family too. Made an excuse for K8 to come over (she was shopping with her mom, who was in on it) and so, it happened. She said yes. After everyone took off, I jumped into a much needed shower. #5 didn't have practice tonight, so it was a quiet evening. I'd mentioned to Hubs that #5's phone wasn't working that great (not getting service when it should) and he used that as an excuse to go buy him a new phone. Then he'll pass his phone to me, and mine to #5 ... he just went with an Android (I like the Find my Friends, which is only iPhone ... he did enable an app Life360 which is similar, but ...) and I'm not sure I want to go to the bother of switching to a new phone myself. I crashed early, in bed and asleep and didn't even hear Hubs come in.
0831 (Saturday) Weight 171.8. Steps 13912. Total Burn 2558. Exercise Burn 0/784 (no exercise). Intake 2400. The bedroom door must not have been closed completely ... Oreo pressed on it around 6:30 in the morning, coming in ... which woke me up. I kicked him back out, but didn't really get back to sleep. Hubs ran into work for a bit. I went to Smiths for a few groceries, then Reams, to grab an ice cream cake, as it is #3's birthday today. 19 years old. Made bacon and pancakes for breakfast. Maga took the two birthday boys out for lunch. #3's girlfriend came over to decorate his room. Trying to figure out what to do with DirectTV ... Hubs got talked into it at the At&T store a couple years ago. It's been fine, while we were on the deal ... but that ends, and the price almost triples! It's crazy. Tried chatting with "loyalty" to see, but no good deals. Called Xfinity and their prices and service is better, but ... RedZone, which #4 is addicted to. There IS an NFL RedZone, that also shows the split screens and top plays, but a different announcer. Not sure if #4 can cope with that, but I'm not sure I can cope with the $160 a month DT payment, plus $400 for RedZone (Xfinity is $160 total for internet and cable and RedZone). DT makes you take down and return all the equipment too (the satillite dish up on the roof that they come out and install you have to uninstall, they try to make stopping so hard you'll stay). I made another run out to grab a cake from Sam's Club for the family party tomorrow. I also stopped by DT, got some more fabric boxes for my office shelves. I've slowly but surely been working, working, working on going through everything and making it more manageable. Organized all the supplies. Lots of stuff for DI. Lots of stuff thrown away. Fun to look through old saved school stuff from the kids. When I got back, the kids were out front playing some basketball and four-square. Had the neighbor's dog out with them too. Ended up with a "spitball" fight (the little "spitballs" were something I'd found as I cleaned out the shelves). We had the cake for #3.
